To my future Sister In Law.

I know how it is trying to feel accepted into a new family. One that may or may not be completely different from the way you were raised. I know how it is meeting the mother and gaining her respect, or trying to, especially when you're wanting to marry the baby boy.. in your case, the only boy. I know how it is wanting to be loved and appreciated by the siblings like they are your own. That's the whole point in the combined family thing, right?

I'm sure it's a pain dealing with my lovely sister and I. We literally have a different mood swing every 10 minutes. ESPECIALLY when it comes to my brother.

So here's what I have to say about this, and about you, whomever you may be.

For some reason my brother chose you.
He's a very smart guy, so I don't doubt his judgment or decision making when it comes to life choices like this.

I will probably get jealous of you, because he chose you. He didn't stay only my brother. He doesn't want to be with just me and mine anymore, but he wants you and your family. That's heartbreaking, and frankly, it pisses me off.

But, at the end of the day he chose you.
So that makes you my sister. I will think that you're wrong alot, mostly because you will disagree with me or you're prettier than me or you're smarter etc etc. But you're his and that makes you part of us.

So for no other reason than the fact that he loves you, means I love you too. I will defend you and your reputation. I will support you and your decisions. I will stand by the both of you forever.

Please know, whoever and where ever you are, that we have a lot of memories to make. I've got your back just like I have his and my sister's.

We are family and that's how a family works. There is no negative connotation to you being my in law. If anything, I cannot wait.

Xoxoxoxo.